Entries by Judy Herman

3 Ways To Decrease Soul Clutter

I saw it a minute ago. . . How did it just disappear? It’s got to be under all those papers. . . Where’d you put the mail? No, I didn’t read the email you sent a week ago.  Do these questions sound familiar? If you’re like me, paper and cyber clutter have been consistent problems. They’re more […]

Intentional Well-Being

School-aged children have much to teach us adults about ways to be intentional! Whether traditional schooling or home-schooling, there seems to be motivation in the air for growth, new routines, and change. Comfortable Routines and Plateaus After our formal schooling, many of us get in comfortable routines and plateaus in life. We forget the excitement, the […]

Attitude Relationship Traps # 5

. . . And How to Avoid Them # 5 Attitude of Being the Victim Years ago, getting my four children up and ready for school was a daily stressor. Sleeping until the last minute added to the pressure and chaos. In some cases I pulled out a bag of frozen marbles from the freezer. […]

Attitude Relationship Traps #4

. . . . And How to Avoid Them. Leadership Attributes vs. Control Tendencies Some who naturally have strong leadership skills also have difficulty with control issues within their own families. For others who are people pleasers, it’s easy to be “victims” of control. The power/control pattern out of balance is damaging in the long-run. […]

Attitude Relationship Traps # 3

. . . And How To Avoid Them Disregard  Most of us have known what it’s like to wait in line at the customer service counter and be ignored by the retail worker. Even if she or he was busy putting boxes away, or changing out cash drawers, or taking inventory, we at least wanted a […]